Also:
I’m now 5.5 months pregnant and wish my ex-boyfriend had an ounce of compassion for the 4 months of chronic illness, loss of work time, depression, and required changes I’ve made to accomodate the pregnancy.

He wishes I could still maintain the high level of patience required to coddle him through his self-imposed dilema’s. He makes an effort to do the right thing but it’s a chore for him. He’s kind of a perpetual jerk and often seems to rub people the wrong way. Various accounts of independent testimony from people that have associated with him report that, he seems nice but there’s something not quite right with him.

I wish he could sack-up and be more supportive/sacrificial for me during the pregnancy. The best thing he’s done for me so far is give me 4 weeks of necessary space from his judgement, critisism, and negativity. Ironically, during that time I’ve managed to regain some balance, confidence, and rekindled the positive ora I once posessed.

In closing:
A few words of advice for controling dads; lay down your sword during this time and take up a compassionate, supportive, and observatory role. Hopefully, this will help you tune-in to the host of your offspring and give you enough insite to predict some of her needs rather than try to dominate the situation and put your current and future relationship with the host and your offspring at risk.

Sincerely,
De’lightful

Thanks for the fun read.
Cheers to dadhood.
Brian